Flax/Bill TGO:
Been there, done that, as well. I turned cynical after the horrible, lethargic performances immediately after Jerry's return from diabetic coma (where he had to re-learn the guitar). I never went to a show again while Jerry was alive. As a result, I missed most of the last decade he was alive. I kick myself now, but I can't turn back time.
I've had this argument with others (and myself, LOL!), but as long as they don't embarass themselves, I'll support them until they're gone. There's lots of dinosaurs out on the road touring, some for money (most, LOL!) and some for the fun of it. If I love/loved 'em, and they still wanna come out and play, I'll go! I can't stand most of today's music...I'm into my old records, and Jazz these days.
I'm surprised at you, Flax....you've been to a ton of Phil shows recently, but you won't go see the Dead? They may look like H**l these days, and they may be about the money, but they still sound pretty good to me! WTF, I need money, and I look (and sound) like H**l these days too, LOL!
Cheers,
Kevin