Why I'm a DeadHead...
I like to think of The Grateful Dead as an American Band. They mix country, folk, rock'n'roll, jazz, blues, bluegrass and psychedelic, all distinctly American styles. Of course the do pull in some of the African/Carribean and European influences of these American genres, as well as the Indian polyrhythmic stuff, too. They're a melting pot, like the good ole USA.
They're also like a baseball team (baseball being the quintessential American sport), and going or listening to a Dead show is like going or listing to a baseball game. Every game is different, even though they've all got the same basic framework (3 strikes, 3 outs, 9 innings, etc.)
With the Grateful Dead, every show was different, and every time they played a song it was a little different, too. Just like the big sluggers don't hit a home run every time, or your team doesn't win every game, not every song or show was the best it could be. The reason we keep watching baseball and listening to the Dead, though, is for those special moments...the bits of excitement that make you get up and yell. A typical Dead show would have a lot more of those than a typical baseball game, I assure you.
BUT...
You can't just listen to them casually and expect to get it. Just like watching a baseball game without knowing anything about the rules would be mind-numbingly boring (just ask most foreigners), listening to a few Dead shows on tape won't give you enough of the picture to be able to appreciate what it is that they do.
You've got to make a conscious decision to explore the Dead; or at least, I did. Back in college, a couple of nights a week some friends and I would get together, grill some burgers, drink some beers, and check out a new Dead tape, just like some guys would do the same thing while watching sports. We didn't have a tv, but we did have a decent stereo, so it was the best thing going. We'd talk about what we were hearing...who was hot that show or who was stinking it up, how this version compared to the other version, how they evolved over time, etc.
Also, there was the tape-trading culture that existed in the pre-internet days... you'd actually have to meet new people who shared your interest, get together and go through each others' collections to see what they had that you didn't, and vice-versa. And then record them IN REAL TIME!!! (can you imagine?? no instant transfers!) Very social and community-oriented stuff. Not to mention mostly free...a buck ot two for a blank tape beat the heck out of 10 bucks for a commercial tape!
And then, of course, there are the songs...
So many of the more recent jam bands are great musicians, but the songs themselves are a bit lacking. Strip away everything else from many Dead tunes, and you've at least got amazing lyrics written by two (IMHO) great American poets, Robert Hunter and John Barlow.
I probably wouldn't have the time to get into them today, but I sure am glad I did back then. All that listening and critiquing was a great musical education and actually opened me up to appreciating more types of music.
Not trying to convert anyone...just explaining a bit why I'm a fan in a way that, hopefully, a non-fan can understand.
And also why I will be making every effort to attend at least a couple of shows on the upcoming tour. It will be good music, even if it isn't the same.