Dave
Interesting topic - I've been dealing with that for years - with both Alembic and non Alembic bases (MusicMan, Aria Pro, Ibanez) - but the truth is - the awesome Alembic electronics have made this a more prevalant issue (now I only play Alembic - though I am about to purchase a Ritter as my second ax). That is both a good and bad thing - as I am sure you will agree. At the end of the day - the bad side to me is for the most part a non-issue.
The approaches I've taken to address the issue are:
* switched strings - hated it - my heavy handed slap and pop technique requires the time and endurance tested design of either DR's or Rotosounds. Other strings go flat too fast, or break too fast (the D & G strings). I tend to break a G string about every 2 days when I play as much as I'd like to, and when I don't play as much, or focus on walking vs slapping, my strings go flat in about 4-5 days
* tried going to all tube amplification - got rid of Trace Elliot, got rid of GK, tried Ampeg and Boogie - though they did deliver some intersting and useful sounds - could not really capture the type of tonal quality that I prefer for my heavy handed slap - I tried hybrid (Eden WT 800) and that is where I have settled. I get the edge I want for slap without the overwhelming brittleness that I had noticed with straight solid state.
* another advantage is having some EQ functionality available - not for sound coloring -but for identifying the particular bandwidth of the brittleness where the finger noise and clicks occur so you can cut that frequency just enough to taper it a notch
* lastly, I have been experimenting with cabinets. Just as with amps, cabinets can lend themselves to a predisposition for bringing out or emphasizing certain tonal qualities. Some cabinets with very wide frequency reproduction capabilties either don't handle transients well / tend to be brittle - whereas others that don't have much of a wide frequency range at all fail at delivering the kind of tone I prefer (no edge or bite). If I had to pick one over the other - I'll take the brittle cab and work around it vs taking the flatter cab and not being able to get that sound at all. Ideally I am looking to match a flat cab with a brittle cab (I have the Bag End Q10BXD - brittle & crisp) and I am considering introducing an Ampeg, ACME or EBS cab to round my sound out
As far as the gauges - I have experimented with those too - it was a very hard tranistion for me. Lighter strings didn't project, sustain or respond with the meatiness I am used to (not to mention they break quicker), and heavier gauge strings did just the same in the opposite direction - however, there is less brittelness with the heavier gauge. The trade off for me was more than I was willing to sacrifice. I use 45,65,85,105 (or 80 on the A string if using rotosounds but then my right hand doesn't adjust well to the asymetry between the E & A, or the A and D)
If you can handle the heavier gauge - this should taper some of that brittleness for you. Someone got me to try some Thomastik Infelds (pyramids?) - and depite the fact that the gauge was really whacky (I can't remember what they were) they responded as if they were perfectly balanced - I was blown away. But they didn't last very long and were very expensive - so I went back to old (and cheap) faithful
Good luck - let me know what you end up with - I may try it too