You're right- She is number 2 for me. Wife #1 used to say It'd be different if you made a living playing bass. Well, that marriage lasted 13 years. I tried and tried to make it work, but alas... So, its been almost 4 years with number 2, and I think she's a keeper! BTW, number one was a control freak that took all my toys away and didn't understand letting me have any space. Our dogs got more attention than me from her, and eventually the line was drawn.
My current wife is a rarity. Her being a musician is a big part of her understanding me. Funny, my Alembics are on guitar stands next to my side of the bed. I see them going to sleep and when I wake up. Oh yeah- I see my wife too! ;-)
Bryant