Hi Guys,
Thought I'd chip in on this one.
I always play my Alembic, for both performances and open mike(s). It's just the way I am. To me it's an amazing playing and sounding instrument *and* a tool I use to ply my craft. Not to mention just plain good fun to play. Anyway....
I'm pretty fortunate that in four years of hosting my open mike, I've only had a couple of situations where someone asked to play my bass. Both times the 'askers' wouldn't accept my said with a smile, polite, Sorry, but I don't let anyone else play my instrument, but you're welcome to come back some other time and bring your own bass. Both times they became somewhat indignant that I, (a woman), had the nerve/audacity to refuse them. Both times I stood my ground, stayed polite and listened to their stories of how good they were, how careful they'd be and, what cool basses they had. Me always saying when they were through talking, Sorry, I just don't let anyone else play my instrument, etc, etc. And just like clockwork they became more and more insistent, and reiterate how good they are etc, etc and finally leave in a huff, grumbling all the way out the door. I just shake my head and smile.
Needless to say I've yet to let anyone play my Alembic at an open mike.
However, here's where it gets good. I'm opening a new open mike in a couple of weeks and in speaking with my 'regular performers', one of them reminded me about one of the two guys that I wouldn't let play my bass. 'Hmmmm, yeah vaguely.' I say. Well it turns out one of these guys, and I quote, Hates my guts and thinks I'm a really big bitch, all cause I wouldn't let him play my bass at my open mike.
What's so good about all this you wonder?
Care to guess where he works at? Yup, my new open mike.

Gonna be interesting, cause if he askes to play my Alembic, he's going to get the same ole story. Sorry, but......
Honestly? I'm looking forward to crossing paths/swords with him again. Brings a smile to my face right now as I'm typing this message.
Best Regards,
Kimberly