Hey John, congratulations on the custom. Taking any bets on whether or not we get together before it's finished?!
My Orion 5 had the 3+2 headstock. When it came time to replace the strings I went with a heavier gauge, wish I could remember which brand and size, that was some years ago. An unexpected bonus was a less floppy B, or as we're referring to here - more tension. Conversely, I once tried TI Jazz Rounds on my Anniversary. Great feel under the fingers, lovely sound. But being low tension strings they were ultimately too floppy. I would think that your choice of string (gauge, core, etc) will have a greater influence on the stiffness of the string more so than how much extra pull you have beyond the nut, or the saddle for that matter.
And just because I'm an impertinent sod, go with the 2+3 and the fan headstock. IMO, the coolest headstock Alembic offers.
Mike