Hi Dave,
Putting the male connector on the board isn't hard if you are good with solder wick (or have a desoldering iron) to get the damaged part off. The trickier part is fixing the crimps on the pickup lead itself. If you don't have the correct crimping tool, it's a very difficult job.
I sell a 2 lead with the connectors precrimped, the housing, and a short length of shrink tubing to make the splice for a couple of bucks.
You can also send the pickups to me and we recrimp for free (you just pay shipping). Either way just ask and I'll thrown in a male connector for the board (I think they cost 11 cents or something).
Email me and let me know what you want to do.