dela, go ahead and give us a picture. I think it will be healthy, and I'm pretty sure we can handle it.
After all, it can't be nearly as bad as Wayne's decapitated headstock, nor our recent gall bladder removal (please, no pictures on that one...).
I don't really drive much with mine - so far, only to/from Alembic - but I struggle with the choice of front seat with seat belt (and airbag!), back seat, or trunk, and can't help thinking about the possible accident vectors.
Hey, it could have been another person, right?
Sounds like the real bummer is that the dent happens to be in a place where you'll feel it. I think you'll need to figure out whether it's going to be an ongoing annoyance, or something that will somehow personalize things and make you feel a bit closer, like you've been through something together and come out stronger.
I'm really not that much of a sap, okay? Fine, maybe you should have used a hardshell case, but mine doesn't actually fit across the back seat, and there are all sorts of other practical considerations. Shit happens, which implies you can never adequately anticipate it, so no point in beating yourself up about it.
Seems like you need to figure out whether it's a nice groove to rest your arm, or if the finish is damaged enough to deteriorate further, or if it's just going to bum you out every time you touch it.
I could tell you about the groove I have in my scalp from my last race to Hawaii, but that's too long a story for tonight. Not an entirely pleasant memory, but I'm still here, and I sound pretty much the same as I used to :-)