Graeme,
What I am getting at is, the people who said things about me on the other thread, they believe themselves, and they are speaking on my behalf and they have strong opinion about who I am. They cannot do that, and the only participation they offered was grief, nothing else. You cannot change me, I cannot stand people like that participating in my topic, because all they can do is stab me, after the valuable info I give them, they stay behind their screen quiet, suck in informations for free, I when I get annoyed at someone they just jump in, like they have been waiting for it. Like the well know fact, the humans are destroying this planet. Sounds crude? well I can put a smiley if they want, look:
Let's say you invite me to eat and you cook something that I don't like, but I know that you spent a lot of time on it, you put your heart, you want to make sure I am going to enjoy it... Let's say I hate the dish, I could say to you two things:
1) Graeme, I am so sorry man, I am allergic to this, I can't really it much, but to honor you I will try some of it, no problem... or something nice to show that I appreciate.
2) Someone terrible would say to you: Oh Graeme, why did you cook this s*** no-one like that man, it's horrible, you wasted your time...
I am 1) NOT 2), and when the 2) typegets in the way, it's no good for anyone, it's 2) that create the tension and messes all up. Problem with me, I see them coming
miles away those number 2). OK, every once in a while, everyone have/had a bit of number 2) in themselves, but 24/7 is out of order, don't you think?
Now let' say, I like Barry White, and you don't, you could say, oh, I am not really into BW, not my cup of tea... Fine, I am happy with that, I respect that. But you could say BW Suck! he is useless... That wouldn't be nice to say right? That's what I meant all the way. That's when I start to tell people get lost and give me a break for example.
The way people participate and what they say. Then to get the Mater worse, I start to read I agree with Mica three 3 x times...
Now that something that got me really annoyed, the fact it's a deja vu cliche, meaning Mica is the Boss and everyone agree with her, I am not jealous of Mica, I like her very much, even if I am annoyed about something (yes Mica you know what), it doesn't matter, I still like her. But I want people to have their own mind, and to take this further, if they don't know, they should ASK, not assume or make comment which are inappropriate. I like jokes, when they are real jokes, when everyone can tell that is was intended to be a joke.
We email each other with Olie and I explain to him that I didn't mean bad at all, but if I teach something, and the student start to argue and he/she is off the track, I would say out, take the door... come back when you are ready to listen and learn That's my style, because I feel like talking like this, because I feel that I can afford to, because my intentions are good, and I do not tease anyone, people benefit from what I have to say. I wouldn't mind some in return of course, but I am not expecting or waiting for anything. It's in my nature to enjoy teaching thing that I am comfortable with, and all I ask in return, it's to not be disturb with negative non-sense, if you don't know, ask, you think that you know better, try to demonstrate in a positive and constructive way. As far we are concerned right, I have demonstrated that there are low-mid/mid control with all Alembic Harnesses, although limited, but it is there, and it's been difficult for me to offer a lecture because of the distraction.
Then Dave start to reply and for bring a huge text to tell me two things;
1) they are busy
2) I shouldn't compete with Ron
Well, 1) and 2) is WRONG DAVE! really I mean it -LG speaking here.
The thread wasn't Alembic being busy or not, and why he made it sound like this, God knows, I was gutted when read this.
When I started to go on with my explanations, I was to try to convince the people who were reading the my plan was a good one
and it made much sense. Until you decided, to make the comments like you did. Again, it's wrong, I don't know why you said that, it's
incorrect. I was enjoying explaining what I was explaining or demonstrating, and basically, you spoiled it, not on your own maybe, but that's
how thing start, everyone bring a little bit, and it goes off topic real quick.
