As far as the pedals/boxes are concerned, I second that emotion. My feeling is that if the instrument does not essentially sound good w/o the boxes, you're fighting a losing battle by adding pedals and gadgets. They can however make a good instrument sound better, or maybe different is a more apt way of putting it. For example, the Sadowsky DI's do a great job with passive Fender's. The aphex box is pretty neat, but it seems to add a lot to my ears, and I usually try to keep it simple. For some reason every SansAmp that I have tried was kind of noisy, so I've not really given them much of a workout. The Zoom boxes are way too noisy.
I'm noticing more and more how much the fretboard makes a difference. I prefer the brightness of maple fretboards overall, but I'm really getting into ebony now. It seems to combine the best of rosewood and maple, strangely.
I also use a 1x10 for practicing. It's a cheapie SWR, but it's great. It also does a great job for smaller cafe gigs.
Sometimes I really have to admonish myself for getting too gear happy. I go back to two big influences on me, Jaco and Jamerson, and look at their basses. On the one hand it's a testament to how good Fender basses are/can be, and on the other hand you can say, Wow! These guys made beat up pieces of crap sound unbelievable. My feeling is that 85% of the sound is in the hand. The equipment does the rest.
By far and away the best pedal out there is the practice pedal.