Hi Jazzy,
At least based on my understanding of Activator pickups / controls, I believe it COULD be done. I'm not an expert on Activators specifically though, so please get a 2nd opinion before altering an expensive set of pickups!
As you noted, sounds like there is only a single pair of conductors from each of the "P" pickups going back to the electronics. To be able to separate out the "EA" and "DG" coils, you (or your tech) would need to cut the conductor that goes between the EA and DG coils, and extend these (2) new cut "ends" so that you have (4) conductors to work with for each P pickup: EA in, EA out, DG in, DG out.
To accomplish the switching you showed, it would likely need something like a 5-position, 4-pole switch like the one
here. The switch would just turn on/off various coils, and it would go between the pickups and the controls.
I don't think this should create any conflict with the blend control. Regardless of which coils you have "on" or "off", the blend control should continue to mix them as normal.
You're absolutely right, though, if the switch is set to neck pickup only, but the blend pot is set to 100% bridge side, you likely wouldn't hear anything! Then again - maybe it's handy as a "both off" setting.
I actually created a bass with (5) pickups, with each one having individually-selectable EA and DG coils, and 2x volume controls like a J bass. It's not exactly the same as the controls you're suggesting, but I think some of this is relevant. If nothing else, the tone demos may be helpful, because I show some weirder combinations like the "outside coils in parallel" in the image you showed.
(I also uploaded a separate video to show the wiring diagram and explain how it works, which might have some useful info for you and/or your tech.)
I did make a different bass that is even more similar to what you had in mind - it has 2 pickups, and a 4-pole selector switch between the pickups and controls to select various combinations of coils. I just haven't gotten around to making a video about it yet! Works great though.
What might also be kind of cool with having both a blend AND a pickup selector switch is that you can do things like selecting only a single "EA" coil, and "mute" the DG strings altogether. You can do some cool sympathetic resonance sounds that way. I tried that in the video above - See the 12:37 mark.
Good luck!
Mike