IMHO, a lot of the divisiveness we experience stems from unfamiliarity with other people, cultures, ideas, etc.
Bill, tgo
This.
I grew up in a rural town of about 800 (well, really, is there any
other kind of town of about 800
than rural?). I think the demographics might have a little bit
over 100% Caucasian, ya know what I mean?
I hung out with kids from the "big city" (±25,000), which was much more diverse. My redneck big brother did not.
He went off to an out-of-state auto-mechanics school, and came home with the news there was a black guy in his circle of friends there.
Me: "Really?
You, hanging with a black guy?"
Which drew the standard bigot's reply in those circumstances: "Well,
he's OK - he's Not Like Most Of Them."
"Yeah? And how many of "Them" do you know besides him?"
(Pause) "Shut up, ya f***in' hippie"
He spent the last 15-20 years of his working life doing 6-weeks-on, 6-weeks-off running an oil field in Turkey; his attitudes, while still not what one remotely call "woke", have eased greatly.
Familiarity does, indeed, help immensely.
Peter (who is likewise heartened by the responses)