Pauldo:
Sorry to hear about the problems you are experiencing.
I work with persons with physical disabilities both as colleagues here at work and it the community. Many of these people use personal voice amplification systems (PVAS).
From what you have described it would appear you have an omnidirectional mic. Microphones for personal speech amplification systems are available in broad field pick-up (omni-directional) and narrow field pick-up (directional), some with noise canceling features.
Sounds to me that what you need is a directional mike with noise canceling capabilities. We have found that directional mics with noise canceling features, have typically worked a lot better for PVASs because they do a better job increasing the “signal-to-noise ratio” of the voice (pick up more of the voice and less ambient noise) and reduce problems with feedback. Directional, noise-canceling mics are especially good when a person with a weak voice needs to be amplified in an area where there are high levels of ambient noise. I’m not sure what type of PVAS you are using but I’ve found that you can’t always be sure that there’s a good match between an amplifier and the mic that comes with it. I’ve seen some quite good PVASs paired with really bad mics.
I can understand someone’s reluctance to wear a headset type mic, which is probably why I’ve seen a lot of people recently using collar mics. These are bendable mics designed to go around your collar (they can be tucked under the collar so they are pretty much invisible) and point up at your mouth. The mic has no contact with the head or hair and is quite comfortable. I believe that most of these are directional and some have noise canceling ability. The two companies below both sell that type of mic but you should be able to get one locally (Luminaud:
http://www.luminaud.com/voice_amplifiers___microphones & Chatterbox:
http://www.chattervox.com/cgi-bin/thatsanorder_LE/ ).
Of course at the high end of the spectrum there’s a company called Voicewave Technology Inc. that has developed a special microphone architecture, electronic signal processor, and an auditory feedback mechanism into their PVAS that basically eliminates feedback, rejects noise, aids in speech production and is claimed to have the sensitivity to pick up signals at or below the threshold of hearing. The research on this system suggests it does what it claims. Unfortunately, the current price is somewhere in the neighborhood of a new Alembic bass.