My good friend and brother Dino,
when you take a rest of mowing the lawn, and look over the rim of your glass iced Ouzo at your children playing give the words of the Indian writer Kahlil Gibran some thoughts: You are the bow, they are the arrows, you can only aim before giving birth to them, than you have to let go.
Paul TBO
...and I added to that myself : but you can go keep on yelling some advice from behind and maybe ...just maybe ...they hear it ...and even more maybe ...they listen ...from time to time.