The following includes generalized recollection.
Colin asked arent we all wannabes on some level and at some point? isnt that why we all started playing?
In my view, while I think I understand the point you are trying to make, I don't think it unreasonable to suggest that for me the answers to those questions can be no, no, and no.
Personally, I never tried to sound like any particular bass player; in fact, from the beginning it never occurred to me to learn the bass lines like they were on the record. Back in the late sixties playing Cream, Rolling Stones, Led Zeppelin, I just made up my own lines. The classic example for me is the Stones' Satisfaction. It was years before I realized the bass line in the verses, unlike the guitar line, goes up to a four. And later on, whether it was Chain of Fools, Midnight Hour, Brown Eyed Girl, I just played what I thought fit. I guess I've played tons of songs for which I never even heard the record.
And never listening to the original bass lines, I never tried to get the tone that the original bass player had. It never occurred to me. And to this day, it's not something I would want to do. I probably couldn't if I wanted to; I don't think I have the ear for it.
As far as I know, I don't sound like anyone else; if I do, it wasn't intended. My tone developed over a long period of time, and constantly changes.
When I play Lopsy Lou, it sounds nothing like Stanley Clarke, the lines aren't the same, the tone isn't the same, the technique isn't the same. And trying to make it sound like Stanley isn't something I would want to do; and I couldn't. I've never learned his or anyone else's tone or technique.
And as for why I started playing. I started playing music, and bass, in 1964 when I was ten years old. And 1964 was when the Beatles were on Ed Sullivan. My dad and I learned how to play guitar at the same time. We played folk tunes together. Most of the stuff we played, I never heard the originals. He would get songbooks, 100 Favorite Folk Songs or such, and we would learn some songs. At 10 years old, playing music was fun; I don't recall wanting to be anything, we just sat around playing songs.
Now I'm not saying there is anything wrong with learning the lines just like the record, or with trying to get the tone just like the record, or with trying to emulate a certain performer or performers. It's just something I didn't do.