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« on: November 08, 2012, 02:43:04 PM »
I was hesitant at first - but figure why not?
 
My mother in-law is very ill . . . that awful C -word. She is beyond any treatment, in fact the doctors say treatment would be harmful at this point.
 
So any positive vibes/ prayers that can be sent her way to make her transition as smooth as possible for her from where she is now and to where she is going would be greatly appreciated.
 
Throw in a good thought or two for the family, my wife is sleepless and her head is amuk with a million thoughts, regrets and desires - I hold steady doing my best to be the calm in this storm.
 
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« Reply #1 on: November 08, 2012, 03:53:16 PM »
My prayers and those of my family are with all of you.  
 
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« Reply #2 on: November 08, 2012, 04:34:21 PM »
I send my deepest healing thoughts and energy towards your needed situation.

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« Reply #3 on: November 08, 2012, 05:45:51 PM »
The Burdette's send hope and prayers to your Mother In Law and family.  
 
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« Reply #4 on: November 08, 2012, 06:06:45 PM »
I pray that your mother-in-law's passing will be peaceful & painless for her & that God will lift up your wife & her family & give y'all the strength to deal with this very difficult time.  
 
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« Reply #5 on: November 08, 2012, 09:00:17 PM »
Sorry to hear about the health issues your mother-in law is facing.  As a psychologist by profession and someone who has gone through something similar, just being there physically for your wife (even when you don't know what to say) will be something that she will need and appreciate. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.

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« Reply #6 on: November 09, 2012, 04:09:33 AM »
My prayers are with you too.  My Father's C really affected me (lost my hair - literally).  Make sure to hug your wife a lot.  My wife's (and kids) love toward me really helped a lot.
 
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« Reply #7 on: November 09, 2012, 06:07:59 AM »
Good energies sent from here too...

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« Reply #8 on: November 09, 2012, 08:33:55 AM »
Pauldo,  
my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you deal with this life struggle.  May your motther-in-law find peace and respite.
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« Reply #9 on: November 09, 2012, 08:49:44 AM »
Thoughts and prayers for all of you Paul.

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« Reply #10 on: November 09, 2012, 09:35:07 AM »
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« Reply #11 on: November 09, 2012, 09:35:39 AM »
My thoughts are with you through this very trying and emotionally draining time.
Peace to you all

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« Reply #12 on: November 09, 2012, 03:21:51 PM »
Holding your mother-in-law in my heart; and you and your family as well.

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« Reply #13 on: November 10, 2012, 08:00:03 PM »
Thanks to all for the thoughts.
Robin (mom-in-law)is still in the hospital and is turning south - she wishes to be at home - complications are holding things up.
 
The most amazing thing happened on Friday. Robin is a huge MatchBox Twenty fan. Apparently the 'Match Heads' (kinda like a Dead Head I guess. . .) found out on a bulletin board that she is gravely ill. Word got out and next thing we know Rob Thomas is calling her from Perth Australia! They talked for 45 minutes and even managed a 3 way conversation with Rob's wife.
 
I have a new found respect for Rob and this un-selfish act - he really made her VERY happy, I can't find the correct words to express our gratitude to him.
 
Plus all of the Match Heads are putting more good vibes/ prayers and thoughts out into the universe for Robin.  
 
I sincerly hope this all comes back to her and provides that smooth transition. . . today was a rough day for her.

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« Reply #14 on: November 11, 2012, 04:07:59 PM »
That's a nice story Paul.  Will continue to keep her and your family in my heart.