As stated in your other thread, preamps are intensely subjective - just find what works for your ear. Beyond that, find a high-quality 4-way cross-over, set it for 3-way with overlap between the cabs, and USE THEM ALL! One amp for the 10s & 15s, one for the 18s. Now there's a sound! (You could get by with one of the 18s, but you have it, so why not use it?) As to power, the only amp I'd spend money on is Yamaha. They're the most transparent, and the ONLY power amp I've never had quit mid-gig; Crown, Crest, QSC, Peavy, BGW, and Traynor (and probably some others I'm forgetting) have all let me down.
If cost and/or size limits you to 2 cabs & one amp, A/B them & see whether you prefer the 10s or the 15s on top of an 18 (IMHO, a bass rig starts with an 18 - unless you want to go a couple $K over your budget and get Accugroove's Whappo Grande 21 beast.)
Peter