Coming to playing age in the late 70's, there was a local guy I admired tremendously.
Steve in those days played the first NS Spector I ever saw. This would have been back when Ned himself was making them in NYC. Originally a fretted NS, Steve asked Stuart to pull the frets and install wood strips for markers (he was, like many in those days, a huge Jaco fan).
He was a phenomenally tasteful player. Fast when needed, big and fat when called for, made it look easy. I got to know him, and he was a very modest person, but very centered.
I saw him later in a new band with two fabulous guitar players and a great drummer. For this gig he was using a fretted two-pickup G+L. Called me up to sit in. I was mortified. I knew the several tunes, but felt like Twiggy subbing for Dolly Parton. Went OK.
On the break, I was very insecure about my playing when he complimented (!) me. He then got right in my stuff and told me I better never act like that in front of him or anyone else, say 'Thank You', and don't let anybody make you feel inadequate about your playing. 'You'll know it needs work, so do your homework and go on.'
Never forgot that. After that any time I saw him, he'd give me that look, and we both knew why, and he was real mentor to me.
That's when it dawned on me it was about way more than gear and practicing scales, the stuff you'll never read about in BASS PLAYER. Way more.
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