Somewhere I've got a cute internet meme with Yoda quoting - Always have gig you will, if bass player you are.
I'm at a very good place musically right now because I get to play with so many *totally* different groups. Adding to the satisfaction, last fall, I quit the best-paying, but highest-stress gig I've had since coming off the road. Since making that tough decision, I've been rewarded with a steady stream of opportunities with people whose company I enjoy, and whose musical gifts surpass mine, expanding my own ability immeasurably.
It's been an eye & mind-opening year. Life is too short, and music is too precious to waste by enduring offstage drama and onstage egomania.