Mica-
Okay, I have played several instruments and measured them. Here are some numbers I came out with:
1. On a 34 Spector fretless, the nut is 1.7 and the bridge is at 17.9 center-to-center. I really like the feel in the picking area on this one.
2. On a custom-built 1983 Dean with 34 scale, the nut is 1.5 and the bridge spacing is about .685 side to side. The picking area is a bit wide-spaced on this one.
3. The '82 Spoiler at 32 scale appears to have an uneven bridge spacing. That is probably because it was set up side to side and now has a different guage string set on it. It was probably set up as standard .6 spacing and it is maybe the slightest bit too tight for slap play.
I tested on a few others as well, but there was nothing particularly enlightening. Well, maybe that it is nearly impossible (for me) to slap on a standard-spaced Alembic five. I think it measured at about .5 at the bridge.
My main focus is string spacing in the primary picking/slapping area. I'd like it as narrow as possible to speed picking (finger or pick styles) while wide enough to slap comfortably. I believe that the narrower nut spacing will have a small impact on this as compared to the regular spacing. If my math is correct, the strings should be about .02 closer together at the 24th fret with a 1.5 nut as opposed to the 1.75 nut.
My final answer is this:
1. I definitely want the strings spaced center to center rather than side to side.
2. The 1.5 nut should be great.
3. Bridge spacing anywhere between 17.5 and 18mm should work for me. I think the standard spacing set up for center to center, as you posted above, is maybe a hair too narrow with the 1.5 nut. Since it appears you like to work in inches, I think an even .7 center to center should be perfect.
I also paid some attention to neck thickness and found that the Spoiler feels great. As such, I am hoping that it is a standard neck depth that doesn't need to be specified. I know that the neck on the Epic 5 I played recently felt chunky to me. The few necks that I measured were between .82 and .9 thick near the nut and between .88 and .95 thick around the 12th fret. The Spector was the thin end of the range and the Spoiler was the thick end. The Dean was a bit thicker and felt it, probably because it's one piece of maple and needs the strength. Even then, the Dean was very playable, so I think the dimension would have to be extreme to be an issue.
Mica, I will send you some other information via email and you can take that into consideration as well.
Thanks
-Bob