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David Houck

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« Reply #15 on: January 22, 2008, 08:43:18 PM »
Brian; I'm thinking of the two of you tonight.  Hoping you have good news tomorrow.

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« Reply #16 on: January 23, 2008, 06:30:23 AM »
((((((((((Brian and girlfriend))))))))))

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« Reply #17 on: January 25, 2008, 01:03:23 AM »
Just a quick update on this.
 
We still don't know FOR SURE that it was nothing but so far everything looks really good.  In about two weeks we should know for sure.  I really really appreciate all the good lovin' and happy thoughts.  You guys are the best.  thanks!

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« Reply #18 on: January 25, 2008, 10:38:07 AM »
Thank you for the update Brian.  Take good care.

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« Reply #19 on: January 25, 2008, 10:50:43 AM »
Best wishes to see you and your beloved clear of this whole experience.  Having been through more than one similar instance, I feel for you.  Just remember that all is rarely lost and it really does work out.
Bill (the other one)

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« Reply #20 on: January 25, 2008, 06:01:19 PM »
So sorry to hear of your girls trouble. Good thoughts, like those you wrote above, will go a long way to helping you both through a rough stretch like this. All the best to the both of you.

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« Reply #21 on: January 26, 2008, 07:56:50 PM »
Brian, a similar thing happened to my wife and me about 6 months before we were married.  She didn't actually have anything removed or any type of biopsy but her OBGYN said there were some irregularities that were a big concern.  It's only natural to be scared when it's someone you love.  I had a couple of weeks to reflect on how I really felt about her and our relationship.  I realized how much I loved her and still wanted to get married.  20 years later we're still married and doing well.
It all turned out to be benign but it scared me to death too.  Hope everything goes well.  Wishing both of you all the best of luck with this.
Rich

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« Reply #22 on: January 30, 2008, 11:01:51 PM »
Brian,
 
I can't really add much to what everyone else has said.I was in a similar state when my girlfriend at the time had a biopsy.Thankfully it was benign but I'll never forget how scared and powerless I felt.I really feel for you,and I hope this awful period of waiting will be happily resolved very soon.
 
Dig deep and be positive and strong for both of you.I'm sure everything will be fine mate,take good care.Love and positive thoughts to you both.
 
Simon.

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« Reply #23 on: January 31, 2008, 06:08:42 PM »
Hi Brian
I am a cancer survivor,a rare type of Myloma probably exposed to airborn chemicals when I was a Police Officer,ya I went through all the therapy,lost my hair,several surgeries heavy duty radiation,feeling deathly sick.
I was given a 50 percent chance and I thought cool that,s better then 10 percent.
I go for testing every 6 months now,and the Dr says I may live a long time.
I live every day a little better,I try to be a kinder person,and dump off any little thing that used to be a bigger thing.
I didn,t want anyone to feel sorry for me and still don,t,but I do wish someone had been with me.
Your Girlfriends very lucky to have someone like you to be along side her,and lets hope everything will go fine.
Bonnie

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« Reply #24 on: February 11, 2008, 10:11:25 AM »
Closure:  All test results negative for Very Bad Things.  She's all good. :-)
 
Thank you again everyone for your kind thoughts, words, and encouragement!

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« Reply #25 on: February 11, 2008, 11:03:48 AM »
Great news Brian!
 
Bill, tgo

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« Reply #26 on: February 11, 2008, 12:07:51 PM »
Wonderful news!

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« Reply #27 on: February 11, 2008, 12:36:44 PM »
Excellent news Brian. You can start to breathe again.
 
Graeme

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« Reply #28 on: February 11, 2008, 02:28:32 PM »
Glad to hear that.  Remember each moment's more precious than it usually seems.  
 
Bill (the other one)

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« Reply #29 on: February 11, 2008, 03:42:13 PM »
You can start to breathe again.
 
Indeed.  And now I'm back to lusting over my as yet to be completed custom Rogue. Things are totally back to normal. :-)