Send a sub! Life is too short to be in an unhappy situation. Be free, play to your heart's content and move smoothly into the next phase of life.
In the words of Paul ( happily married to Linda) When you were young and your heart was an open book, You used to say live and let live, (you know you did) and in this ever changing world in which we live in, makes you give up and cry, Live and Let Die!