Rory:
CONGRATS to you and your lovely bride. May I offer two nuggets of wisdom that my late father passed down to me on the occasion of my first and only (& still going strong) marriage nearly 7 years ago:
1. If your wife is happy, you have a chance to be happy. If your wife isn't happy, you're not going to be happy.
2. Never fight with your wife. If by chance you should get in a fight with your wife, whatever you do, don't win!
Bill, tgo