For me, it's not even about my Alembic, since she's relatively late to the dance, being my 7th (and last) bass since high school graduation. I treat all my basses with the same reverence and respect. So far, most other players have gotten that vibe from me and usually don't even ask.
But if you are a dear friend, then by definition you can have a go at her! But I WILL pre-flight her with you; going over the controls, asking you to remove your belt; running the cord through the strap for strain relief to prevent pulling the jack out of the body (I normally play sitting down and don't use a strap); reminding you that a 35 scale means the headstock is really far away from the body and to always be mindful of the resulting kill zone, etc. At some point I also reiterate she's a posthumous gift from my mother and embodies her spirit.
By that time, they usually play really crappy cuz' they're scared shitless!
But as stated previously, if we are at an Alembic gathering I trust you implicitly....
(Message edited by oddmetersam on October 18, 2010)