Hey Hal,
Two possibilities:
1) theblackbirdstudio.com (Parsippany, NJ). This looks like a nice new place for $34/hr with no engineer. $65/hr with. The prices are all inclusive with amps, etc. The location is less convenient for flyers, as this is 25 miles west of NYC (but off of route 80), and about 30-45 min from the airport. Spacious area too.
2) musicstudio22.com in Union. This is more of a bare bones affair at 23/hr. 20 x 20 foot room. No recording, only rehearsal space. Does not sound like a full drum kit is available. Have to rent cymbals. Only snare drum. 15 min from airport.
Both will allow food to be ordered in. We can also bring whatever we like as far as equipment at both.
I have not visited either place personally.
I am open to any other proposed locations. But remember: If you propose it - coordination is on you.