Been thinking about the original post for a few days now. What kind of refurbishment did your instrument have? Did they remove the electronics?
I'm wondering if something was removed and reinstalled incorrectly. One source of the kind of distortion you're describing might be a bad battery which is easy to fix, but if they erred in reinstalling the jack, the power switching might not be working. Or, the power delivered to the pickups and EQ might be diminished in some other way. That would cause the guitar's output to be clipped which will cause this unexpected ear fatigue.
Another part of your description is harsh attack. That's often the sign of an impedance mismatch. If the electronics are connected up correctly and the power is OK, then it's possible that this can be caused by dirty contact surfaces on the connectors. Unplug each connector and make sure the plug contacts are bright and shiny. If you haven't got contact cleaner like Deoxit, then a pencil eraser will work fine too.
While you're checking those contacts, make sure everthing is plugged in correctly. If you have the little brown molex connectors, they're indexed so you can't plug them in backwards. If one pickup were reversed, the intermediate positions will be out of phase and sound thin. If the power connector is backward, then you migth see a reduction of power to the preamps.
One other thing that might be easy to try is to remove the output jack so it's not touching the body of the guitar, especially if your guitar is shielded. If there's an expected short that's stealing some of the power to the circuit or some of the audio, removing the output jack will take out the most likely area of the problem. You can take a look at the wiring of the pots too to make sure that nothing is touching ground that shouldn't. Activators are pretty complicated compared to most guitar electronics and fully insulated, so it's unlikely that anybody would have screwed this up by rewiring, but they have to do the output jack, so there's a window for error. A grounding problem like this can be fixed with electrical tape, shrink wrap, or thin nylon washers as needed.
Good luck!
David Fung