And here's my insight into the 5-pin world...
I have converted all my basses and cables to Neutrix black connectors with gold plated pins and sockets. (Also lately I've been building short cables with Mogami W-2534 cable covered with expandable braided cable sleeve for a bit of extra protection). Even though there is a "spec" for XLR connectors I think different manufacturers sometimes stretch those tolerances. Like the infamous Monster cable 1/4" plug which was a bit more than a 1/4" and wrecked many actual 1/4" jacks...
I also learned early on in my "hobby" soldering life that if for instance I'm soldering a male 5-pin connector to a cable I need to have at least the insert of a female connector plugged into the one I'm working on. Not only to help dissipate the soldering iron's heat but because sometimes that heat can melt the connector I'm working on enough to shift the pins out of alignment. D'OH! Start over.
Sorry Jazzyvee, that doesn't really answer your question.
Jimmy J