I have a long-scale, Standard Omega five. I live with it being a bit neck heavy as even Ron can't overcome geometry: The strap point on the upper horn lines up the D on the G-string above the first octave. This is for me the classic ALEMBIC shape, so I've learned how to live with it, had to have that look. And mine is not heavy in overall weight. You've just got to have that strap point closer to the octave (or at it) to balance easily.
If that sounds like it could be an issue for you, another shape might be better. I am 6'1, wear a 44 long jacket, and it's as far as I'd want to reach for first position.
The weight is a function of the shape + the woods involved. Naturally a big body with mostly dense, heavy woods, is gonna be more of a handful than a smaller body in the same or lighter woods.
But believe me, Susan and Mica and Val have the 'custom tailoring' down to a SCIENCE, and remember . . . they see and build them every day, so I would REALLY give weight (. . . unintended pun, ed.) to their insights.
As much as I admire all the dark wood masterpieces they build, I like the maple tops.
Mine has a quilt top (over mahogany) that I really like, and wish they got more calls for Tiger-stripe/flame maple, would like to see more.
J o e y